When someone asks you what you do, what do you say?
Do you give them your official job title, do you give them an informal reference to what your job is, do you describe your tasks and leave your job title open or do you simply shrug and mutter something about your job, making yourself sound as irrelevant as possible?
I read an interesting article recently, via Twitter and that got me thinking about the above.
How do YOU see you, in your job. Because how we see ourselves can either be better or worse, or sometimes exactly like others see us.
That brings me to the point of professional purpose. S Poswolsky says that in work we should learn our purpose, instead of just trying to find it. Your job may have general definitions of what you are supposed to do. And you could spend years trying to find your purpose in the what and why of your job and those definitions. He has a strong point in saying that you should learn your purpose .... in your more defined tasks, ask yourself, "whose life do I affect when I do this task efficiently, how do I make the company look better when I do x, y or z".
Somewhere in there you may find that you swing from "do I have any real purpose here", to "this is the great impact I make simply by what I do and the way I do it".
Let me tell you something I know for sure, simply because I struggle with it - more people recognize and appreciate what you do than you generally give yourself credit for. Yes, there will always be those who work in a situation where you are one of hundreds and no matter how much dedication you show, you slip under the radar. But generally, we short sell ourselves.
I am still at work right now. Because I was told to be? No. Because I was asked to be? No. Because I wanted to be. I simply cannot bear anymore driving today so having 4 hours to kill (mother of an 18 year old) I have come to work to pass that time. With the buzzer at the gate not ringing and the phone not ringing etc, I got through a serious pile of work. And then decided to clean up my office of all the little stuff I have - my candles, little cactus plants, my stationery all over the desk, my little that and little this. My office just screamed Karin, those who know me will confirm. Boom - colourful, out there, one candle always burning. It now screams Secretary and first person you meet as you walk through the door. Perhaps a change in professional purpose. You can't be lightening covered in glitter forever.
So maybe you need to give this a think - and then ask yourself what your mantra is? And if you do not have one, what would you want it to be? I had a week to think about this, before writing this blog.
Mine is simple. Do all things with kindness.
I am going to stick it on my computer so that I see it all day.
And remember - wherever you are - your feet are not cast in concrete .....
till soon
c'est la vie
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