Friday, 3 April 2026

A bit of this and that

So readers - I have so many drafts and cannot choose, so I decided to rather do this fun one that bloggers pass around to each other, all over the world, once a year.  So if you know all of these, you must be family or close to me, if you know some or none - here is the lesson -

Favourite food - Pizza and Poke bowls 

Favourite drink - Cappuccino and more cappuccino. Heineken Zero shandy. 

Favourite season - Summer. I’m a beach and ocean swim girl

Favourite chocolate - Gold Lindt Bunny. But since that is seasonal only, Cadbury Wholenut and Cadburys Tumbles shortbread choc *way better than Whispers or Chuckles* oh my word. But those Lindt bunnies ……..

Favourite scent - Clinique Aromatics White and Georgio Armani “Si”

Favourite TV programme - any crime series or thriller particularly involving an elite police squad - or serial killers and police profilers. Also love local Afrikaans series. And Netflix documentaries.

Favourite sport to watch - F1 F1 F1. Followed by Premier League football, then cricket, then rugby. 

Favourite book genre - same as TV programme and then local African writers. Not really a romance reader.

Favourite book genre non fiction - politics and autobiographies 

Favourite part of job - the parishioners and for admin hard to choose - love it all. And yes, I’m happy all the time there.

Favourite colour - mint green

Favourite dessert - Baked cheesecake or Mc Flurry from McDonalds (they have a Speckled Egg one now!!!)

Favourite brand - Converse All Stars 

Favourite song - Currently - changes all the time -  By Your Side;  Turn Down for What (thanks Jess);  A Te;  Stick Season;  il filo rosso;   Leave me alone (when I asked Nic he said Absolutely. It’s a goodie hey). So I am all over the place when it comes to music.

Favourite chips - Tomato sauce and Lays Cranberry

Favourite pastime - journaling, reading and my blog.  And beach, beach and more beach

Something you probably don’t know about me - don’t eat olives, want to paraglide off Signal Hill, have always wanted to write a book

Favourite greeting - ok my whole family is laughing so we won’t do that one. Second one is - I promise . Parishioners will say it’s “hello my friend” to them. 

Favourite car - I’d love a mustang convertible

Favourite Bible verse - Romans 10:17 So faith comes from hearing through the word of Christ and Mark 5:19 Go home to your own people and tell them how much the Lord has done for you. And always “for I know the plans I have for you says the Lord ……..”.

Favourite saying - Where you go, go with your whole heart. 

So till soon

C’est la vie

Xxxx






Saturday, 7 March 2026

Lent. Let Go and Let God.

 So Lent. How is yours going? 

My hubby gave up reading. He and I each read in excess of 100 books a year. Now this is a tough one. I don’t think he knows what to do with his hands or earphones early mornings and during the evenings. He is like a smoker in withdrawal. I would be the same. I think the instinct to pick up a book is for us a natural one. We can happily read a weekend away together. I admire the effort it is costing him. 

My Lent? What exactly it contains is not for this column. However I will say that I am leaning more towards the “will do”s” as opposed to the “won’t do’s”. As usual I do my 40 days of Lent letter writing and as always it interests me to see the responses. Some phone me in tears. Some send me a meaningful message, some almost shrug it off (ok one did and I was not surprised), but one very surprisingly seemed to not realise that this exercise means something to me. Maybe the nonchalant response was meant to teach me something. Even God has a sense of humour. But it hurt me. And they will never realise how much. There is something I will tell you - in one of my never ending Uber trips during the ongoing car saga, I had to have the driver do the round of libraries viz Somerset West, Strand and Gordon’s Bay, before taking me home. Our books are always from book sales - like at our parish, or very often the plethora of libraries we frequent. The driver was fascinated that I had books to return to all three. When he parked at Strand Library so I could run in, he told me he had never been in a library. 42 years old and never been in a proper large library. What privilege we sometimes ignore in our lives.. Well come along I said, when he had parked, and into the library we went. I gave him the grand tour, like a member of staff. He loved that there were books and audiobooks, magazines, places to sit etc. I got him a membership form - you don’t pay to belong to a library, they explained he needs a copy of his ID and proof of address (he had it from his savings acc) and two references. I told the library to use me as one (they want to be able to find their books if needed). He drove me again three days later. He had joined. And taken out one book. And that - that is part of my “will do’s” of Lent. Will do more of, not less of. 

One step at a time. One deed at a time. That is what we are called to do. 

Till soon 

C’est la vie 

Xxx




A bit of this and that

So readers - I have so many drafts and cannot choose, so I decided to rather do this fun one that bloggers pass around to each other, all ov...